HOLD ME RIGHT FILM
Through a handful of intimate first-hand testimonies––ranging from a nurse that performed her own rape kit to a pedophile molested as a child––Hold Me Right follows both survivors and perpetrators through the harrowing journey of speaking up, healing, and moving forward.
In addition to the first-hand testimonies, Hold Me Right integrates animated sequences which display the tumultuous trauma that can exist within. Through unfolding the many different paths people take in attempts to reach healing and justice, these sequences allow the viewer to walk in a survivor's shoes. We follow an animated character along this emotional journey, while seeking help in hospital, reporting the crime to the police, and reactions from their family and coworkers. This film uses both thematic echoes and animation sequences to tie together talking head interviews and verité scenes of our subjects in their daily lives.
The film focuses on the stories of 10 main characters (including the story of the filmmaker herself), interweaving portraits that take us into the lives of both survivors and perpetrators. Hold Me Right is a unique film that exposes the consequences of our misconceptions about these unspeakable crimes while simultaneously providing a way forward.
Because sexual assault survivors are often faced with a lack of understanding and disbelief, many choose to stay silent in the aftermath. None of us want to believe that these harrowing crimes are happening in our own homes, schools, workplaces, and communities at large. Hold Me Right reveals the cost of this silence.
In the era of the #MeToo movement, anger and fear prevent necessary dialogues that address both sides of abuse. Hold Me Right pushes our understanding of sexual assault by humanizing both perspectives. This film seeks to normalize these conversations about abuse to stop the cycle of shame and violence.